Hi! We're Katie and Michael. Thank you for taking the time to read our profile.
We met on a cold winter night at a cozy restaurant bar in 2017. Michael was by himself for a quick dinner after skiing. Katie took the last seat at the bar, which happened to be next to Michael, and we exchanged a brief conversation. The more we spoke, the more we realized we had a lot in common. Katie's good friend arrived, and we all had a friendly conversation. Meanwhile, Michael was trying to figure out whether or not the friend was Katie's boyfriend. The friend kept elbowing Katie, encouraging her to talk to the handsome man sitting next to her. After a while, Michael asked Katie for her number, and they had their first date shortly after.
One year after they started dating, Michael proposed to Katie at the top of a hike in Estes Park, CO. He hid a bottle of champagne in his backpack, which was a great way to celebrate our engagement. We were married at a wonderful world heritage site church, St Catherine's Chapel on the Rock, near Estes Park, in August 2018. Our wedding was small and intimate with just our immediate family - and it was perfect for us.
After years of trying to conceive a baby without success, we started talking about adoption. We know friends and family members who have adopted, and although everyone's journey is different, each is heartwarming. We would very much like to have children and believe adoption is a beautiful answer to our dream of becoming parents.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.
Michael proposed on Deer Mountain Peak so we relived that special day by hiking it again with our friends visiting from Jackson Hole.
We FaceTime with Katie's family every Sunday to stay in touch with Katie's niece Lydia who loves the phone haha!
Celebrating Katie's birthday with our close friends! I made a wish, blew out my candle and pray my wish comes true this year
We celebrated Pastor Louise's retirement today. An amazing woman and we wish her only the best in her next chapter! She's been an instrumental part of our adoption story offering so much love and support.
Celebrating with Michael's family in NY! Enjoying time with Michael's nephew Sasha
In Tulsa with Katie's family for Christmas Day. So much fun playing with Katie's 6 month old niece Lydia! She's smiling, rolling over and bonding with her Tulsa/Denver family
Hosting Katie's parents for Thanksgiving with a traditional meal of turkey, sides and pie. We had a fun weekend enjoying the start to Christmas.
Hanging out with friends at the Avs game! The second intermission entertainment was a youth hockey race and the kids were very talented! Michael loves hockey and we'd be open to the future kid being a part of hockey league if they'd interested.
Michael and I love getting dressed up and handing out candy! Looking forward to dressing up the kiddo and going trick or treating!
We attended the Open Door Ministries event raising money for people in need. This organization does amazing work in the community for homeless, single mothers and other people in need of help.
Weekend in Taos NM visiting Michael's parents college best friends! They've been friends for 60 years!
Loved holding and cuddling with my niece! She is adorable, smiling a lot and is so much fun!
Our good friends in Denver had a baby and we are meeting him on his 3 week birthday. He is such a calm and content baby! We loved admiring him and bonding with him!
Getting a new pair of glasses from my best friend who's an eye doctor and hanging out with her daughter in the office!
Had a great stay in Taos with Michael's aunt and uncle. Grateful to have them a drive away.
Fun weekend trip to the mountains with our friends and their little ones. Here we are sharing ice cream in the park.
Katie's brother had a beautiful baby girl!! We're so excited that our adopted child will have a cousin to grow up with!
We're visiting Michael's parents in NY for the 4th. Also spent quality time with his nephew, sister and brother!
Beautiful day for a hike! Passed many families hiking together and we plan to hike with our adopted baby in a backpack carrier
My dad visited for Fathers Day! We had such a fun weekend filled with farmers markets, graduation party and good eats. Here we are at dinner to celebrate Fathers Day! Can't wait for Michael to be a dad himself!
We enjoyed the afternoon with our friends at the annual church picnic. Everyone at church is excited to meet our future child and will provide a lot of love and support!
We spent the weekend in the mountains with friends and their playful dog who loved Michael the best! We hiked, relaxed and enjoyed the beautiful spring weather.
Katie co-hosted her good friend's baby shower. It was a beautiful day to celebrate her and her little boy on the way.
Michael's good friend from childhood asked him to be the godfather to his son. Here they are at the communion.
Beautiful sunny day for a baseball game with friends! Rockies won 2-1 after a Rockies home run was overturned due to fan interference. Exciting game!
Our dear friend's daughter was baptized today at our church! Such a special day for her (the middle being held by her dad). Here's a photo of the family and friends!
Left the house this morning on our way to a hike and found out we had a flat tire. Ended up not being a big problem after we worked together to put the share on!
Katie traveled to Houston to visit her college best friend. Katie also spent time with her best friend's 5 year old daughter as pictured. Katie values her 20 year friendship with her college best friend and watching her as mother to her spunky young daughter!
We visited Katie's family and spent a week in Branson, MO. Branson is a very kid friendly town and Katie's parents are excited to vacation there with grandchild in the future! Katie's mom cooked an amazing Easter brunch and we spent quality time together eating, talking, walking and exploring Branson.
Katie traveled to Canada for work and Michael joined her to see the sites. We did a hike in a winter wonderland. It was freezing and a great time!
We participated in numerous holiday festivities. We attended a performance of the Nutcracker with our dear friends and their two little ones. We spent Christmas with both families per our tradition, by flying to New York for Christmas Eve and Tulsa for Christmas Day. We finished our trip with a wedding in Texas!